“One is not born a woman, one becomes one.”- Simone Beauvoir
You can only be a good lover if you are a good actress.
Not for the pleasure of your partner alone, but fundamentally for your own pleasure. I don’t mean this in the sense of ‘faking an orgasm’, but in a much broader, deeper sense.
Are there people out there who feels completely satisfied making love as themselves, as the secretary typing memo’s, as the doctor slicing open bodies, as the cleaning lady scrubbing the toilet, as the teacher sweeping classrooms and wiping snotty noses?
You have to make love as a lover. It’s a transformation that has to take place, especially in females.
A man doesn’t care about roles, or transformations. His cock is enough.